Where do YOU fit into your day? If you're giving to others at the expense of yourself, you're trying to pour from an empty glass. Depletion, joylessness, resentment, disease, all can begin to set in if you're neglecting the most important person in your life: YOU!
The more you give to you, the better you'll be able to serve others. So don't be afraid to give to yourself, nourish yourself, take time for yourself, and, goddamn-it, love yourself...because at the end of the day, all you really need is love!